How has teen violence affected you?
 Tonight on 106 & Park we will be discussing teen violence and showing you ways to deal with it in your community. But first, we want to know how you have been affected by teen violence. Have you ever been bullied? Do you know someone who is in a gang? Leave a comment, letting us know what your experience with teen violence has been, then tune in for the show at 6PM/5C.
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 Tonight on 106 & Park we will be discussing teen violence and showing you ways to deal with it in your community.

But first, we want to know how you have been affected by teen violence. Have you ever been bullied? Do you know someone who is in a gang?

Leave a comment, letting us know what your experience with teen violence has been, then tune in for the show at 6PM/5C.

 
 
 
 
 
 
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  • East1999 East1999 commented | 13 months ago
     
    In 7th-8th grade I used to get bullied a little bit. I myself wasn't a bully, but I got into a lot of disputes with people. I'm now 19 about to turn 20, I've been out of school for almost 2 years now, and sometimes I wish I could say sorry to some of the people from high school. I don't think the people who were mean to me would say the same though.
     
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  • PRETTY*GURL**Bre PRETTY*GURL**Bre commented | 13 months ago
     
    teen violence affected me, when i was only 12 years old i was verbally abused by my father every single day and since my fathewrs mother raised me since i was three i was left aloine many nights while my grandmother was out gambleing in a bingo hall he wolud'nt care witch one of my friends or cousins were around he would jus attack and i knew i couldnt say or do anything to make him jus stop and shut up so since my father said hurtful things to me his little girl i really had no reemorse telling anyone how i thought of them and when or where i thought i would say mostly mean and hateful things i would even use some of the names i heard my father say to me. will i was totaly unaware of behavior so my teacher would call home almost evryday untill my grandmother sought to me being talked to by a councilor i calmed down after that and i stil do keep all my negative thoughts to myself well now im 18, I ran into an old friend at our nail salon and we were jus talking about old tymes and thats when it struck me she said it " Bre you where so mean in elemantry school,i scribbled your face out the year book and put mean by it ". lol yes that was the first time that i actually heard that from a peer and it mad me feel awful even though im glad were over them years and can laugh about it now it hurts to know that i could of been the cause an innocent persons death. and now that im older and wiser i cn see that i broke the cycle of a horrible trait i was a victim of bullying and i also played the role of a bully ,bullying is not cool!!!
     
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  • isabeau isabeau commented | 13 months ago
     
    i have been affected by bullying big time well im in 8th grade and in the 7th grade i had got some jeans on sale they were to kute but i bought 2 pairs and i ware other jeans i rarely wore them but when i did people would be like didnt you where them yesterday i would say no and tell em what i wore cz my style is all the same and everything but 1 day i got on the bus i sat in the back and this girl had thrown washer detergent at me and said here wash your clothes i moved to the front of the buss and told her i take a shower and i have clothes they where like my fav pair of jeans i mean every1 has a fave pair of jeans buit my 7th grade year was the worst because this continued untill the end of the year and it was only 1 month after school started when the bullying started 1 time i had prayyed 2 die but i couldnt even get the nerv to kill myself it never happend and i think it was because it wasnt my time yet and i also didnt want them to get the satisfaction of that but all the time i would go home every day and cry and listen to music and stuff all drama al the time at my school with guys and girls and how im a *** or what ever and i dont act like a *** or anything i would cry i would stayin tide at recess because would hate goin to recess i couldnt stand the laughter i would cry it would follow me all the way to fb i got soooo scared to go to school because i didnt no what was gonna happen the next day and it never ended i was allways scared to get on the bus but then the summer everything calmed down but bye the time summer was over it was time to go back to school it was still a little drama but i stood up and told them stop picking on me im not dirty im not nasty i am clean i am dressed i am proud to be here and if your gonna pick on me be go ahead but then that just make you nasty icky gross all the things you where calling me so i wont let you get the satisfaction on calling me any of these things if you follow under them 2 and they stopped i was so happy because i was strong because i went through it alone and up to this day im very paranoid about how i fell and everything but singing 4 me was a break through now when i get sad i have something i wanna do and that is a great way to get things off your mind and now i wanna be a singer know think people be for you guys say something about someone because it hurts ily guys thank you
     
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  • TBabyLuv TBabyLuv commented | 13 months ago
     
    I live in Northwest Indiana. Cyber bullying causes a lot of drama at my school. Students make impostor facebook pages and post rumors/ dirty secrets about people. They don't bother me that much but I know situations like this can become dangerous. It's really pitiful because these cowards don't even have the courage to show their faces. Of course our principles can spend the suspects but by the time that happens at least 12 people have already read the negative post. Everyone If you see stuff like this report it. On Facebook there is a link at the bottom where you can do that. Yeah we hear stories here and there about teens committing suicide from cyber bullying but there is actually more cases that we haven't heard about. Those people who talk about others are insecure anyway. WE MOST STOP THIS FOOLISHNESS! We are only degraded ourselves as a people. People have called me every name in the book. I thank the Lord that my family tought me how to brush off the haters and I'm a strong individual. But others can't take this!
     
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  • 209joker 209joker commented | 13 months ago
     
    I live in California in the valley, and I have seen some pretty crazy bullying. Most of the people here are very self-preserved and closeted. I'm one of the few people who try to be themselves, and I get picked on and bullied by being called gay or other similar names. I felt so alone like I didn't belong. I also used to have really bad acne, and that just gave the bullies even more reason to pick on me. I have never been confident in my looks due to this. It just hurt so bad, I hated and tried to avoid looking at my reflection in the mirror. When I did, I would have a nervous breakdown and cry. It got to the point to where everything people at school were saying was sinking into my brain, and after hearing it a certain amount of times, I started to believe it. I started to hate myself and the way I looked and was. I wished God had given me clearer skin and a more masculine voice. I never told any of my family I just hid the pain. Although it might not seem like a big deal, growing up with those kind of side effects and bullying scarred me. I still don't have much confidence in my looks, and as I got older it became harder to struggle with my sexuality. I was afraid of what people would think of me and I kept it a secret although people still picked on me for it. I know many people who have been kicked out of their houses and abandoned by their families just because of their orientation. It's sad how families don't understand what we go through and many others. A few years ago, a local kid was jumped and beaten to death because of his orientation. We had a day of silence at school, somewhat of a protest. I'm now dedicated to helping those with the same problems I had and am studying Human Services.
     
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  • trequezwilliams trequezwilliams commented | 13 months ago
     
    My name iss trequez williams and bullying had a big affect on my life .My teacher and classmates called me gay and faggots after it happend i felt like i didnt belong because everywhere i go thats what seems to come out of everyones mouths.When i talk or try to be myself that was said to be ''GAY" .Everyday I think why does that word have to be that word and everyday I question myself was it me trying to be thing called "myself" or is it ignorance. Well because that on ( November 3,2010) I tried to take my life I felt likke no one else should feel that way and do what I did so stop the
     
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  • lucki lucki commented | 13 months ago
     
    Bullied: A Student, a School and a Case that Made
    History tells an inspiring story of a young gay
    man who took a stand against the bullying he
    experienced in school. It is designed to create
    empathy for victims and to encourage others to
    take action. Part One provides standards-aligned
    activities for classroom viewing of Bullied. In
    Part Two, we offer guidance for educators to
    create environments that are safe for all students,
    including lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender
    (LGBT) students.
    For further information and updates, visit
    tolerance.org/bullied.
     
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  • ARapperNamedBilal ARapperNamedBilal commented | 26 months ago
     
    I'm( ARapperNamedBilal )up and coming artist/owner of Intrakit.ent
    from Kenner,LA (8mins. from New Orleans)Here is a link to a video of a song I did which tells a story about how guns are cheaper than video games.I wanted to highlight the reasons why I think these things are happening in our world today. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R_r1TwGygSc
     
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  • SEXZZY REVENGE SEXZZY REVENGE commented | 26 months ago
     
    every year there is someone who is in teen violence here where i live there is always someone whos been shot stabbed or raped or ran over teen violence has to stop and it has to stop now thats just alot of hatred and jelousy!!!
     
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  • El MEjOR AlGUNA VEZ El MEjOR AlGUNA VEZ commented | 26 months ago
     
    tEEN ViOlENCE hAS NEVER tOOk NOTHiNG FROM ME bUt i kNO PEOPlE WhO hAVE bEEN hARMEd OR KIllEd bECAUSE Of iT.tHE ThiNGS thAt PEOPlE dO tO EACh OThER JUST to FiT iN iTS CRAZY.i bELiEVE PEOPlE NEEd to WiSe UP ANd THiNk AbOUt WhAt tHEY dO bEFORE tHEY dO iT.iM NOt SPEEKiN FROM ANOTHER POiNT OF ViEW i kNO hOW bAD ThiNGS CAN GEt iF YOUR NOt WiLLiNG tO GEt OUt bEFORE THiNGS GEt bAD...
     
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  • mz Jessica neal mz Jessica neal commented | 26 months ago
     
    yes teen violence affected me I been called a tease and i been abused by guys in school I have alot of friends in gangs and me seeing people get hurt makes me want to help others from not getting bullied it really touch me I have told alot of friendz of mines is not worth to be in a gang to hurt others and I use to be in a gang but I NEVER hurt nobody cuz its not me im just a nice person i realize that gangs are just stupid and u only getting yourself and others in danger plz save others by saying no TO gangs
     
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  • mz.aly mz.aly commented | 26 months ago
     
    yeah i had been bullied before than they had stop until i had told (i was in the 1st grade when i got bullied). i know some people from my old school that where in a gang. it was alot a people at my school. iam trying to stay away from the gang members because they killing people in my area
     
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  • naya naya commented | 27 months ago
     
    yeh it touched me alot , but i was not goin to kill anybody or do anything hurtful to anybody. but anyways it touched me alot and it is very sad because the same issue happend to my brother. my borther was a hornor roll student and didn't harm anybody. i wil miss my brother but he had to go for no reason. i luv yuh Austin.
     
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  • Cupcake455 Cupcake455 commented | 27 months ago
     
    That show they did on Teen Violence was absolutely heart-breaking! Nobody is this universe deserve to DIE, but when it happens because it will, they should die on PEACEFUL terms not TRAGEDY! Teen Violence is NOT the answer! I have been fortunate enough not to lose somebody to Teen Violence but I do know people who have suffered that terrible fate and I can't believe that we have people out there so cruel that enjoy seeing people in pain! I have a brother and a cousin who are right now at this very moment in a gang and it scares me because I don't want to be on 106andpark talking about my dead brother and cousin! I encourage everybody to STOP THE VIOLENCE while you can!
     
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  • andrea andrea commented | 27 months ago
     
    well i am not in a gang but i have lost somebody in i had a cousin who was like a bother and he was in volla in a gang he was so deep in it that they killed him at the age of 25 yearsold.and where i live at ts nothing but gang volicen here .and if you have kids or brothers or sisters please need to talk them an raised them right .
     
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  • $$~L0V3LY L@N3 MU@H~$$ $$~L0V3LY L@N3 MU@H~$$ commented | 27 months ago
     
    TO ME IT'S CRAZY 2 SUMMERS AGO I LOST MY FRIEND HOLLYHOOD HE GOT SHOT IN A DRIVE BY AND MY OTHER FRIEND TAHEEM IS NOW PARALYZED FROM THE WAIST DOWN AND IS NOW SITTING JAIL BECAUSE HE KILLED THE BOY BEFORE HE GOT SHOT AND NOW HIS CHILD IS WITHOUT A FATHER. ITS AFFECTED ME HARDER CAUSE I GOT COUSINS IN THE PENN NOW AND THEY CAN'T EVEN COME SEE ME GRADUATE LIKE THEY PROMISED BECAUSE OF ALL THE STUPID VIOLENCE OUT HERE THAT THEY WERE SUCKED INTO. R.I.P. HOLLYHOOD YOU ARE MISSED SO MUCH
     
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  • *Adeara* *Adeara* commented | 27 months ago
     
    i dont agree with violence at all i have i friend who wanted to join and gang but i was able to talk him out of it. My Best Friend son was caught in the cross fire of a gang shoot out he was nothing but 4, when it happen he died in her arms. what the point of gangs anyway?
     
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  • Mr.Morehouse Man Mr.Morehouse Man commented | 27 months ago
     
    I don't agree with teen violence, It effects me because I can't show others that I'm a gentlemen without my race going out on the streets gang banging and make us as African Americans look bad. I am one man who is trying to change that stereotype of black man, we all aren't violent we all don't curse and we all don't play basketball. I am a man who wants to make change in our community and we need to put a stop to all the violence because it makes know sense in fighting people, Its not going to solve anything. Everything is getting out of hand with my generation, we do what ever we want and really don't get any consequences or discipline afterward. We as a community as one body need to enforce discipline on everyone, maybe violence drugs and drinking may decrease. Only we can find out if we start now and apply it.
     
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  • MONEYorNOTHING MONEYorNOTHING commented | 27 months ago
     
    killin people is stupid i used to hang with gangbangers when i was younger but now that i want to pursue modeling, and become a photographer they wasnt going to help me do that and plus they was fighting and killing over colors that the whole world where and streets or blocks that they dont even own. its wierd and crazy how they fighting over names that been made up. the people i hang with now are entertainers or some who is in the same field as me. idk the bullying is stupid i live in the ghetto, and my fam is struggling and people around us die everyday so ima get out outta here. and i get bullyed because i present my self like im wealthy and proper. i dress all the time. and people around my nieghborhood thinks im rich so im always getting jacked and they seen of my modeling photos or seen me on teve they think im successful but that money goes to my mom so she can buy her house and i never go outsie. unless i have a ride or school or going somewhere i dont even check the mailbox or take the trash out nothing regarding outside
     
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  • iAm_Nesha iAm_Nesha commented | 27 months ago
     
    Teen Violence Effected Alot of People in My Community iLive in EastNewYork and in mah commmunityy The Same People are BeefinGq With eachother,KillinGq eachother Over nonScence ! iJus lost a Friend Of mines To Gang Violence his Name is tayquan But Known As TayTay Or Tay Weez ! This iS A Situation that iCant Get Over and its Enought iDnt understand how u can live in the same hood and beef and kill eachother. i Dont understand why they Dnt think before they Do things. They Dnt understand when dhey take a Lifee dhey Are hurtinGq sSO manyyPeople and dhey arent solving the situation they are MakiinG it Worst iJus wanna know what do dhey Get out of Killing eachother ; do they think dhey aree On topof dha World when dhey Shoot someone ? do they think dhey Get Respect From Killing someone ? The CRazy Part is that Tayquan Dont Come around He Wanted To Chanqee hiss Life around and dha Stupid Person who Killed him Didnt Even Let that Happend They let they Anqer For A Whole bunch of people Get The Best of them. i Dont understand whyy They Go around Shooting eachother all they time ; They always Fighting and dhey Always Shooting at eachother EVERYDAY ; if u live in the same hood how come ya cant have peacee ; with this Beef and Etc ur not only putting your life in danger but your putting your wholeCommunityy in DANGER bcause dhese young People who are BeefinGq arent thinking about our SAFTEY ! they not even thinking about theres ! dhey dnt wanna showw a Example for dhese lil Kids Growing up insted dhey wanna Shot and kill; hurt others Family and etc when a LIfe is Tooken and to think about it ! When Your Friend Get Killed Wouldnt U want to Stopp Whateva Caused Dhe Death insted of EqqerinGq it On and MakinG it Worst ! idnt think dhese Boyss out Here Would Understand Until its None of dhem STANDING and iLovee These Boyss Liek my Brothers But Enouqh is enouqh iAlways Try to talk to Them and Tell dhem dhat its Not Worth it butthey Pretend dhat there ListeninGq But go do another smh ! iCant Hanq With a certain Person Cause dhey have beef with the People iGrew up with This is SICK and its gettine me to a point where idont wanna live in NY Anymoaa Bcause iWould Hate to see another Friend GO !; These Killers dnt Noe what theyy are DoinG TOo Eachother They dnt Look at the After math they Dont look atwho dhey are HurtinGq who Childen Lives dhey are taking away '; who GrandChilds; Who Uncle ;whos brother


    They Dnt UnderStand dha pain They Caused When dhey Took Taquan Crandell Life awayy R.i.P Taquan iMiss u So Much and ily
     
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